Reality Check

Hey Gals and Guys,

It's been a bit since I have written...Traveling  and recovering is time consuming.
I'm going to be brutally honest here, I had a rude awakening last year ...TWICE-

Once due to an accident that had my life literally flash before my eyes, and then in the same month then being diagnosed with Thyroid Cancer.. It has been a rough year. Between recovery from injuries, and then surgery and body scans following. It is exhausting.. My road to recovery is on going, It looks like I am ok on the outside. But physically it is still an ongoing exhausting process and any body who is or has experienced this knows.

So, that being said  in all of that happening? You start to feel "Not Invincible " Anymore...You start to re evaluate what really matters, and to me? What really matters is Family. My children , Spouse, And my parents.. Because those people love Unconditionally.. Everything else no matter what you think? Is superficial. I'm not doubting you have true friends, But come on...

My youth had a reality check like in the face with a frying pan BAM!!! So What I myself have done is just re evaluate what I'm doing here, what I want to do.. That I'm still here because I have much more work to do , and by the grace I am still here.. I am grateful for every day that I have and that I am still present.. Take risks, Share, Love , Do something OUTSIDE the Box...

For we are not Invincible.

Listen to your Inner Self

Iv'e been thinking,
Anytime I even consider doing something especially if it is significant, I need to listen to that voice ... What does my inner voice tell me? Now I have a choice, I have a choice to do the right thing or to make a poor choice. We all have that option, it is something that we learn as we grow and gain some knowledge as to wether or not this is going to effect me personally and the people we love..

Not everyone does it ,even if they have the conscience to do it.. Others have that ability, and choose to ignore it and some just do it. Which one are you? And sometimes you just do instinctively, and whether or not you like the outcome? You did the right thing and damn that feels good!

I , honestly rarely made the right choices when I was younger.. I didn't I admit it because I was young and selfish and didn't think about the impact that I as one person had on someone else let alone the impact that I could have on many...

So here it is , as you grow you learn we've talked about this before... And you realize things.. Things that you had no CLUE about in your earlier years. Then? You appreciate, then you try to make better choices and consider your loved ones becaue we've  learned that we as individuals have such a deep effect on eachother that what each of us decide can be so completely infectious in a positive way , or negatively that it is much better to be the positive than the negative.
If only we could all do that , right? Whether we are more caring than others and we get taken advantage of, or we are too tall , too short, too thin, too heavy, lots of hair, no hair, illness, healthy if we can just slow down to consider the next person wouldn't we live in a much healthier , and happier place?

So let's try it, you and I let'stry to think about things before they come out of our mouths and before we act hastily.. And Listen to Our Inner Selves.

Thanks for Listening, Keep coming back for more!  Love the views-